This is a post dedicated to the beautiful practice of female masturbation. No, it’s not only about jerking off. It’s about taking the time to explore ourselves, love ourselves, become one with ourselves and especially discover our magical spots.
When I talked to Sofia in one of our women’s groups in Thailand, we discussed the pros and cons of sex toys. As most of you probably know (from experience) vibrators are pretty strong and powerful when it comes to female masturbation, but at the same time they have a desensitizing effect in the long run . The buzz is more or less an unnatural mechanical sensation which no one, but your vibrator rabbit, is able to give you (not yourself and not your super lover either). Once we get used to this buzzing pleasure, sex or masturbation without a vibrator gradually starts to feel boring… maybe you know what I mean.
Anyway, today I want to show you a toy which is non-vibrating, non-toxic but powerful, elegant and very useful for exploring our bodies. This toy is, thanks to the universe, amazing for unleashing some deep pleasure in us. It’s designed to stimulate the G-spot in such an elegant way that the splashy water fun coming from the G-spot turns into a Goddess like experience. Ok, maybe I am exaggerating a bit, but it is true for me. My boyfriend gave it to me at Christmas a few years back. It came in this real classy black box with a white silk bag. My Lelo Ella comes in a sexy deep rose.
So I tried it out and at first felt a bit unsure what to do with it, as at this point I was still using vibrators. But the more I opened myself to the idea that I didn’t necessarily need a vibrator for my self-loving practice to feel pleasure, the more I opened to the Lelo too.
Healing Massage For All
I discovered that you can use the Lelo Ella for different purposes. The first is for a healing massage. It has a slight pointy side which is great for massaging the inside of your yoni (yoni is a Sanskrit word for vagina, literal translation “sacred temple” – S.S.).
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She helps people rediscover the innocence and sacredness of their sexuality, and start experiencing their open, unashamed eroticism as a portal to internal freedom.
After leaving her law career, Sofia spent 5 years in Asia studying the secrets of Tantra and Taoism, and over a decade training in healing and spiritual modalities. She has held over 20 worldwide trainings, a countless number of short workshops, developed three online courses on the subject of sacred sexuality and garners a strong online following of over 80,000 people.
Sofia has been featured in Elephant Journal, Yoga Journal and on a number of Conscious Sexuality and Femininity summits and podcasts.
Russian born, she can be found all over the globe, anywhere between Bali and Ibiza.