I know how common it is in couples: one partner gets very excited about something and wants to bring something fresh into the relationship, and the other partner is… well, resisting.

And if you have ever felt into Tantra, if you have become intrigued by it, if you have thought there might be something in it for you, something that could possibly create a lot of magic in your life…. If you have been following me for some time and been inspired by my content and you have the desire to try it out… I know that you definitely would like to invite your partner on this journey with you.

And one day you approach your partner and share about Tantra, but they express no interest in it whatsoever, or they even tell you that it’s a bunch of nonsense and you shouldn’t even try it by yourself.

You have no idea how common this situation is!

So what to do?

I feel that there is a yearning in the world for Tantra, this magnificent system of self-development which embraces all aspects of life: the light, the dark and everything in between. Tantra gives us specific techniques that turn our Love and Sex Life into a sacred journey of empowerment and transformation into the best possible version of ourselves.

In Tantra we dive into it all, we open ourselves to it all. And this is how we become deeply real, deeply truthful, deeply ourselves.

Here are 3 steps:


1. Get into Tantra by yourself.

Contrary to common belief you don’t actually need to have a partner to practice Tantra. Many of my students start when they are single. Or they come to courses without their partner and gain HUGE results in terms of uplifting their self love and self worth, body image, understanding their own sensuality, unlocking their own orgasmic potential… to name just a few things.

Once you have awakened yourself from inside, you start radiating this new uplifted state of being. And your partner is likely to get very curious: “what is it you are doing?”

Remember this: the less you try to prove – the better.

Be quiet and let your practice and your grace speak through you. No words will be needed. Your partner will start asking you questions, so you can wait patiently and know that it will happen!

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Sofia Sundari

Sofia Sundari is an international transformational teacher, bestselling author of the book Liberation into Orgasm, founder of the Priestess School, world leading authority in the Yoni Egg practice, and facilitator of courses on Tantric & Taoist sexuality.

She helps people rediscover the innocence and sacredness of their sexuality, and start experiencing their open, unashamed eroticism as a portal to internal freedom.

After leaving her law career, Sofia spent 5 years in Asia studying the secrets of Tantra and Taoism, and over a decade training in healing and spiritual modalities. She has held over 20 worldwide trainings, a countless number of short workshops, developed three online courses on the subject of sacred sexuality and garners a strong online following of over 80,000 people.

Sofia has been featured in Elephant Journal, Yoga Journal and on a number of Conscious Sexuality and Femininity summits and podcasts.

Russian born, she can be found all over the globe, anywhere between Bali and Ibiza.
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