There is something that I call an “empowered woman’s syndrome”.

It’s an attitude that some women adopt. It is especially common amongst those who have been doing a lot of personal development work.

It’s a bit along the lines with what happened with new age spirituality – with good intentions beautiful values turned into something superficial which is only talked about and not really deeply lived.

The same thing with conscious women’s movement, women want to step away from the victim mentality and be empowered, which in itself is not bad of course. But the drawback is that they develop a personality around how this “empowered woman” should be. Maybe some are even asking themselves: “what would an empowered woman do here?..”

In that the whole point is completely missed. “Being empowered” becomes another box where this woman is placing herself.

Dear women! We don’t need to create more boxes!

We have been boxed for centuries! Time to break free of all boxes, even if they look all pretty and are covered with diamonds.

Make the most important value in being yourself, being real, being free.

This gives so much space, so much capacity to love. This attitude soothes all the contracted places, it releases your heart from all those self imposed boxes.

Forget about being empowered. Cry when you want to cry. Laugh when you want to laugh. Be angry when you feel angry. Don’t withhold your love when it’s flowing through you. And know that you are not meant to be always sweet and nice. You are not meant to be always strong. Be vulnerable. This is such a gift! And true power is right there. Be you. Because it is you who is really beautiful.

And the world cannot wait to see You.

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Sofia Sundari

Sofia Sundari is an international transformational teacher, bestselling author of the book Liberation into Orgasm, founder of the Priestess School, world leading authority in the Yoni Egg practice, and facilitator of courses on Tantric & Taoist sexuality.

She helps people rediscover the innocence and sacredness of their sexuality, and start experiencing their open, unashamed eroticism as a portal to internal freedom.

After leaving her law career, Sofia spent 5 years in Asia studying the secrets of Tantra and Taoism, and over a decade training in healing and spiritual modalities. She has held over 20 worldwide trainings, a countless number of short workshops, developed three online courses on the subject of sacred sexuality and garners a strong online following of over 80,000 people.

Sofia has been featured in Elephant Journal, Yoga Journal and on a number of Conscious Sexuality and Femininity summits and podcasts.

Russian born, she can be found all over the globe, anywhere between Bali and Ibiza.
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